# Re: Stolen by Covid - portion of Childhood/Youth Re: Greetings - especially to RY

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Posted by wetnboy on December 12, 2020 at 18:50:47

In Reply to: Re: Stolen by Covid - portion of Childhood/Youth Re: Greetings - especially to RY posted by Ry on December 08, 2020 at 03:30:42:

Ry,

Lots in their pal - but actually very normal on your part. I am similar - had a girl come throw her arms around me when I was 14 and say "your mine" and I didn't know what to do, but allowed it - fortunately she didn't push anything sexual. I too like girls and yet have struck out with choosing wisely - a few close calls with serious relationships that would have resulted in miserable marriages before deciding I was ok with being single and happy. I have had fun times with clothes on wrestling with guy friends and often that will get you aroused. Have trouble getting other guys to enjoy being wet - some just don't like it.
I also enjoy looking at guys (especially if wet) - but truly it is a guy thing to look at other guys to compare/admire what they desire and wish to look like.

I will say that this week I have spent a bit of time doing two things that you've inspired - 1st praying for you to have the dark cloud completely lifted and be 100% again. Then I spent a bit of time replaying wet times from the past in my mind - complete with as many details as possible to be able to begin to write stories on here that you asked me to do. You are correct though - they take time. The work week is too busy.

Mental Health for all of us is more important right now with all going on. I saw several TV commercials this week on that topic - local places advertising to 'get help' and especially watch children and youth. They say its the Isolation and most important remedy is Community. Well buddy I thank you for drawing me out finally to share in this Community - it is helping me as lately those feelings of 'pressure pushing me down' have been tough and make me feel I need an escape like a trip or adventure - even tempt me to just get in the car and drive..........so my resolution was to make it a wet week - I'll post above to make sure everyone sees that I had fun this week.

I'm waiting to see if my Mom comes next week to stay a week - been planned all year and she's still not sure about it - that's just part of things I've been sorting - Will love seeing her if she does (been a year) and if not I'm resolved to have a thoroughly wet week - looks like some rain closer to Christmas.

Back to your age questions - I have given thought to this week to share with you and you brought it up (again). YES you are at a transitional age - much pressure to 'grow up' and act 'mature', but barely a teenager so do not feel bad at all about hanging on to childhood things/times until you are ready. I recall what you refer to as the Dark 13 and will share for your benefit.

At 13 I was in 8th grade - chosen by testing for 'advanced' math class that was Yr. 9 Algebra and required me to get up early and take a special bus to school to have the high school level Algebra class before all the other kids arrived for the school day. I am Not a morning person and I got really tired and depressed eventually walking home several miles after the bus dropped me off - I was an emotional wreck and walked in the house and said I wasn't going to school - I just couldn't handle the early bird class. Wrong - Dad went off and paddled me so bad my sister had to scream at him to stop, then dropped me at school (I made him late for work) where counselors were more to help you figure out what classes to take in high school next year. I still remember after gym that day changing one boy saw my red butt and asked if I'd been spanked - oh yeah - not the kind of care we now show to emotionally distraught teens. I had no one that was really helping and Thank God for one librarian at school who was an old friend of my Grandmother. During the day when my class had their math, I and the other brain in my class who had 'advanced math' were assigned to the library and could do what we wanted - homework or help in library or read. This library assistant could tell I was really out of sorts and approached me and got me to open up - well you know what happens then - I just broke down and cried. She ever so kindly encouraged me and in effect turned my head back on course and continued to check on me. It was a tough year but I made it through. Had a little wet fun/discovery along the way too.

Same time I felt I was losing something - same as you are feeling - childhood was leaving and I wasn't ready for that. Dad worked late two nights a week and I begged Mom/and my younger sister to have a board game night we could just play games and fortunately they went with it - I was clinging to wanting that fun family time. Well that was the highly emotional as you call it Dark 13.

Fast forward and at 14 I started to change and find more interests and by somewhere along about 15 I became what my parents termed a 'hermit' as I would go in my room, close the door and listen to music - Dad always forcing me to turn it down. Then I saved for a set of Koss Pro4AAA high quality over the ears/headband studio style headphones. But you know when that changed occurred it was on my time frame and my terms and I was ready. Don't rush it - be 13 and enjoy it and do whatever you enjoy.

Another matter we are so much kindred spirits - I am the one that loves standing under drainpipes, walking in streams and yes even rolling in puddles. I totally get your insecurity about what others think and being 13 is a big advantage. I will go out when raining or just after and am so conscious looking around and will roll around when no one is around. So if I'm any indication - be encouraged - you will not ever outgrow this - just become more discrete.

Ry, you are going to be a Great Mentor to others in many ways. First, you are so exuberant, expressive and fun and a very caring person as you are already planning how to use your depression experience to help others later. Something I was taught early on about mentoring: Be Vulnerable by being open and share wisdom learned from your life experiences - which helps others listen and learn based on what you've been thru. You do that on this forum and so I know you'll do it in person.

Glad you have the family support and love along with your mate Ross. I have two very close friends that I met when I was 15. We live several hours apart but the one who is single is coming here for New years and the other is married and I just called him on the phone last weekend. Friends for life!

A couple pieces of 'advice' to you. Hang onto some things from your childhood to have around in your adulthood - can be favorite toys or a stuffed animal - things you'll 'outgrow', but you have very fond memories with - keep some of them - don't discard them all.

Ry, I'm a Sr. manager/VP at work, and previous to that ran a small company. I'll write stories from these times - going out after dark to play in the fountains and commercial sprinklers, or crashing a pool at a hotel or apt. complex fully clothed - just being a kid 'after dark' when less noticeable. My aspiration which I believe you will like to adopt is to be like Peter Pan. Peter Pan is the story of a free spirited mischievous boy who refused to grow up.

Love you Ry - not the physical, sexual kind, but rather the meaning which is a deep enough caring that you're willing to do something for someone and take action. In that sense I write to encourage you and lift you up. I will find time soon for sharing wet stories - meantime I plan to stay young and wet and hope you will too.

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- Re: Stolen by Covid - portion of Childhood/Youth Re: Greetings - especially to RY Ry 08:55:23 12/13/2020 (1)
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