> # Re: Dylan

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> Posted by LevilovR on January 16, 2018 at 12:38:54

> In Reply to: Dylan posted by Passing up an opportunity on January 16, 2018 at 03:14:52:

> You should not be forced to do anything that makes you uncomfortable - PERIOD! You have every right to refuse.

> If you refuse you will have to answer why you don't want to do it. Obviously people know you have done it before and apparently it was no big deal. Both times it was out in the public - dunk tanks always are by necessity. So people will wonder when you say no. Don't make a big deal about it, just say you don't feel like it this time, but might some other time.

> On the other hand, as a person who loves dunk tanks, I hope you decide to do it in the end. Dunk tanks are the most acceptable way to get wet fully clothed in public that there is. No one thinks a thing about it at all. So why not make it fun? Do you know other people going in the tank? Why not challenge them to come up with zany, creative costumes and have a little contest amongst yourselves to see who can be the most creative. The crowds will love it. Take a super soaker with you to squirt the people throwing balls at you (just don't hit them in the face. I got little girl once in the face and she screamed bloody murder. Fortunately her mother was understanding). For a person of your age nobody is going to think twice about your being in the dunk tank. I hope you will go and enjoy it and have fun.

> I say all this as an older and wiser person who wasted a lot of time worrying about what other people thought. Thank God I found out that I have to live my life my way, according to my standards. Not doing anything illegal, criminal or immoral. Not ruining any one else's life. I've actually made a lot of friends as a result of getting wet and muddy at public events.

> But you must decide for yourself, and it is ok to say no just as much as it is ok to say yes.

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