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> Posted by Tanner on July 05, 2016 at 18:18:45

> Hello. I'm 40 years old, and I have loved swimming in my clothes for most of my life (since I was a kid). I'm married, have 4 children, and continue to find ways to get wet in my clothes still.

> I'm wondering if anyone has some good advice on how to continue this lifestyle choice, but without having it negatively affect my relationships. My wife thinks it is just something stupid that I do, especially when I'm drunk, and doesn't really think it's very funny, so I try to hide it from her. This is unfortunate, because there have been times when I've wanted to let her experience it WITH me, but she has declined. For example, we were at an all inclusive resort in Mexico last summer, just the two of us, and one night we were kissing by one of the pools in the evening, and I wanted her to get into the water with me to keep the passion alive, with all of our clothes on (at this resort, men HAD to wear pants to dinner, so I was in khakis and really wanted to get wet in them and my button up shirt). She didn't want to "get her dress wet." So, we missed the moment. Still, we had met this other couple there, and one night, after some post-dinner drinks, the other husband and I dove in to the main pool in all our clothes, just because our wives told us "not to do it." It was AWESOME (and, I'll say, that my wife and I probably had the best sex of the trip after that stunt)!

> Still, I'm finding that the older I get, the more I am enjoying this hobby of mine, and I'm always looking for opportunities. This past weekend, my wife took all our kids to the lake ahead to me, because I had to work the morning of the 4th. On Saturday the 3rd, my buddy and I were hanging out in his back yard, and he has a pool. Since he was home alone, and since my family was gone, I had intentionally worn jeans, a long-sleeved blue thermal shirt with a black t-shirt under it, and white Nike no-show socks. After about 20 minutes, I told him I wanted to try out his pool, and he said to go ahead (he refused to join, because he claimed the water was too cold for him). I spent the next 5 hours in and out of his pool, fully clothed. I'd swim around (while we kept talking...he at his patio table, me in the water), and then I'd get out and sit on the deck for a while, before diving back in. It was AWESOME! It was even cooler when his family got home, and his son, who is about 15, noticed that my clothes were wet (I had been drying off for about an hour before they got home so I could drive home), and thought it was hilarious...so, he literally went inside, put on jeans and a button up shirt, and came back out saying he wanted to swim with me! So, back into the pool I went...and we spent about 45 minutes swimming, and his parents thought it was hilarious. It was a great day...especially because of how long I was in the water, fully clothed, and my buddy didn't even care.

> I was hoping, when I went to the lake to join my family and my wife's family, that there might be an opportunity there too. There was a huge 4th of July party on the lake, right out in front of our place, with lots of boats, a band, and a bar on a float. There was this one guy who I noticed was in his "country boy speedo" (aka full-length jeans). He was in and out of the water all day, and I SO wanted to go join him, but I was afraid that my wife would be upset, and/or that her family would think I was strange. So...no swimming in clothes for me at the lake, but at least I got to see someone else having a blast.

> This all brings me to my question (finally): How normal is it for people to enjoy swimming in clothes? Does anyone know if there has been a study, showing if it's 1 out of every 5 people (for example)? I would really like to know, and I also love to hear other stories.

> I have a suspicion that my best friend is a wet clothed swimmer too, but I'm not 100% confident to ask him. He has gone swimming with me a few times in his jeans, but I have never been sure if it was because he liked it, or because it was just what he was wearing, and he didn't care. He's a dad also, and I have seen him go into the lake with his daughter in long jeans and a t-shirt, because she wanted him to swim with her, and he didn't want to go inside and change (I LOVE stories like this).

> So...if you have advice, or even just stories like mine that will help me to fully embrace this lifestyle choice, I would appreciate reading what you have to say. I have found this forum very helpful, and I look forward to hearing stories like mine to help me in my continued exploration. Thanks

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