# Re: New flatmate dilema

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Posted by LeviLovR on October 03, 2019 at 12:15:18

In Reply to: New flatmate dilema posted by Wayne UK on October 03, 2019 at 10:29:59:

I live alone in my own home and enjoy my solitude and privacy. Over the years several people have told me I should get a room mate, but I don't want one as I want to be able to do what I want when I want in my own place. I always tell people if I want to dance naked on the kitchen table I can do so - not that I will, but the option is there.

Here's my advice, for what it's worth. Tell him as soon as possible. You know he's going to find out sooner or later any way, so sooner is better. He may be surprised at first, but I expect over time he will just accept it and say, "Well, that's just Wayne and what he does." He might very well have some interesting things he wants to tell you too about his "hobbies". At worst he might move out and you have to get another roomie. At best he might join you. So tell him. You were there first and I assume the lease is in your name. If he moves out then look for another guy - and tell him too before he agrees to move in.

I know other people have had this same situation on this site with spouses, lovers and room mates and the reactions have been varied from one extreme to the other. As I said, I expect his reaction will be somewhere in the middle, depending on how desperate he is for a place to live. I'd give him an advanced notification so that he has time to process it and not be completely surprised.

Good luck!

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